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What is separation anxiety in children?
Separation anxiety is children’s fear of being away from their parents or carers.
Children with separation anxiety might cry or cling to their parents or carers when being separated from them.
Separation anxiety is a common part of children’s development. It can start at around 6-7 months and reach its peak in children aged 14-18 months. It usually goes away gradually throughout early childhood.
These anxieties are nothing to be concerned about. Children are starting to move around more at this stage, so these anxieties make sense from a survival point of view. That is, if children could crawl or walk away from their carers but weren’t afraid of separation or strangers, they’d get lost more easily.
If your child is suffering from separation anxiety, it’s best not to avoid separation. Instead, there are many things you can do to gently encourage and help your child.
In new places
When you’re leaving your baby or child
At home
Read about the stepladder approach, a gentle behaviour technique that can be used to help children who suffer from separation anxiety.
As children reach preschool and school age, they’re less likely to have separation anxiety. Of course, there’ll always be times when they only want to be with you.
If your preschool-age or school-age child seems particularly and regularly upset about being separated from you, it’s possible they have separation anxiety disorder. About 4% of preschoolers and school-age children develop this condition.
Separation anxiety disorder is when your child’s anxiety:
Compared with other children the same age, children who have separation anxiety disorder might often:
At around 10 months, most babies get upset if a stranger comes up to them in an unfamiliar room. Only 50% get upset if they have time to get used to the room. This means that in new situations, babies cope better when they come across new things gradually.
You know your child best. If you’re worried about their separation anxiety, consider seeking professional help. You could start with:
Kids Helpline offers confidential counselling to children aged 5 years and older. Your child can call 1800 551 800, or use the Kids Helpline email counselling service or the Kids Helpline web counselling service. You could help your child make contact.
Your child might be able to get Medicare rebates for up to 10 mental health service sessions from psychologists, social workers and occupational therapists each calendar year.
To get these rebates, your child will need a mental health treatment plan from a GP (this covers what services your child needs and the goals of the treatment) or a referral from a psychiatrist or paediatrician.
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